They Rowed 41 Days Nonstop & Raised $41 Million
They Rowed 41 Days Nonstop & Raised $41 Million
How has your perspective on family relationships changed after being apart for 41 days?
Brendan Cusick: I would say that we often don't fully appreciate and almost take for granted the connection and experiences we have daily, which may diminish their perceived value over time. However, when we are away, the importance of these connections becomes more evident. Upon reconnecting, the ongoing and iterative growth of these experiences enhances their richness.
How can a community uplift you during difficult times?
Peter Durso: My worst moment was around day 20 or 21. We had just spoken to our coach, Angus, who had been giving us updates on the duration of our trip. Initially, we thought it would take around 34-35 days, but based on the latest weather updates and our pace, Angus predicted it would take 42 days, which was accurate. Trying to accept that we'd be out there a week longer than anticipated was overwhelming. It was a tough day for all of us. I went into a deep, dark place for the next few days. At one point, I broke down completely, crying on the deck, unable to row. My teammate, Scott, came over and just put his arms around me. That moment of support was all I could ask for. Throughout the journey, we continually supported each other with hugs, kind words, chocolate, or other small acts of kindness, but mostly, it was the hug when you needed it.
How can setting goals and commitments provide motivation during difficult times?
Scott Forman: I remember day three as the most challenging. Pat and Ed were very sick, and the sea conditions were beyond anything I could have imagined. Brendan and I had been on deck for a long time; we were the only two who could eat and maintain energy. We rowed for extended periods, questioning our presence there. We had deployed the sea anchor twice, but the longest stretch required us to get some rest. Exhausted, freezing, soaked, and sleep-deprived, we crawled into the cramped cabins to spoon with our teammates for warmth. I hadn't slept at all in the first three days. We agreed to meet back on deck at 5:30 AM. When the sun rose, Brendan and I resumed our positions and began rowing again, pulling up the sea anchor. It was a moment of full commitment; there was no turning back. This decision felt as profound as those from our mountain guiding days, or our careers in emergency medicine, where commitment can mean the difference between life and death. From then on, I knew we were all in. Brendan had hinted at this commitment during a trip across the Grand Canyon, suggesting a challenge for my 50th birthday, to which I agreed wholeheartedly. From that point forward, we gave our all.
Why is it essential to express emotions and thoughts openly during challenging situations?
Brendan Cusick: It was something said right after getting off the boat, and it still holds true: when heart and mind are fully committed, anything is possible. Having a community of people who allow honesty, authenticity, and openness is essential. Opening the gate to true communication and sharing where things stand can provide invaluable support during challenges.
This process must come from a place of sincerity. It’s something the team developed organically leading up to the row, which helped immensely when facing challenges. However, it doesn’t require rowing an ocean to build strong bonds. Authenticity and open conversations are vital to relieving internal pressure and lightening the load.
Surrounding oneself with the right people, being truthful, and sharing—whether through conversations, journaling, or another method—can make a significant difference. While it may feel intimidating, it ultimately creates clarity, reduces burdens, and opens the door to new possibilities.
How can taking on monumental challenges reshape personal priorities?
Patrick Morrissey: When discussing rowing an ocean, it’s fascinating to see people's reactions. When someone asks, "What did you do this summer?" and the answer is, "I rowed an ocean," the response is often disbelief. Most people don't even know where to start—"What do you mean, row the ocean?" Reflecting on something so monumental is a unique experience for me and, I’d say, for the team.
One outcome of this journey is the realization that exercise must remain a non-negotiable part of life. Setting goals to keep moving forward and staying active has become essential. Another outcome is the unique bond formed with the team. While lifelong friendships are valuable, the intensity of such a major event creates a completely different kind of connection. It’s hard to describe unless you’ve experienced it yourself. This journey has brought so many valuable lessons and experiences.
*This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.*
